I had a day of individual and team coaching sessions last month. I arrived early to settle myself in my coaching room. The first song coming from my iPhone was '不‘ (Translation: 'No') from Danny Chan 陳百強. I was intrigued by the lyrics and the upcoming coaching sessions....
”請 不要問 請 不要問 只 想快樂 不 想有恨.....”
(Translation: "Please... do not ask. Please... do not ask. I want only happiness but not hatred")
This is very much related to coachees' unconscious preference "NOT to change" discussed in a previous post.
