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Rethinking Humour
Robin Williams in 'Good Will Hunting' This post is to reflect on the relationship between humour and me in helping conversations.  On reflection, I used to hold a slightly negative view on producing humour in helping conversations. It is a kind of cheat — a way to avoid the real work, or to collude with the clients, or even to entertain them for the ‘5’ rating.  Humour, I believed, was what you used when you do not want to face something important. Looking back, that beli
David
2 days ago6 min read
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Words Make Worlds: Social Constructionism and Coaching
Our words don’t just describe reality – They create it.
David
Nov 75 min read
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'How did you manage to do this?'
I find myself asking this question more and more often in my coaching work. Asking this question (with a tone out of curiosity and...
David
Dec 25, 20234 min read
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The moment just before
It has been a long while since I last wrote.  So much things have happened and there are a lot to reflect on. Let me first reflect on a...
David
Dec 14, 20233 min read
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Sherlock vs Dorothy
I happened to come across again these 2 movies after I wrote my last post on 'Appreciating Defense'. The main characters in the movies...
David
Jun 1, 20221 min read
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Role – Why me again fixing the Wifi?
One day I found myself attempting to fix the Wifi at home again.  I was somehow annoyed with it.  ‘Why me again?’…. And I have already...
David
Feb 24, 20213 min read
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Just the Person
‘Just the person’ I am reading again the article ‘What is the difference and what makes the difference? A comparative study of...
David
May 25, 20202 min read
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‘Immunity to Change’ vs Psychodynamics
[Photo source unidentified. Please advise if anyone knows. I will add the source accordingly] I learnt to use the ‘Immunity to Change’...
David
Oct 19, 20194 min read
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