She Helps But She Does Not Care
I once heard a kid commenting another person as ‘She helps but she does not care’. What an insightful remark from a 10-year old! There is indeed a subtle difference between ‘helping’ and ‘caring’, but not always being noticed. Such difference is particular important in intimate relationship or in the helping business like therapy and coaching. The intensity of exchange makes caring (or the lack of it) easily noticeable. In addition, the feeling of being truly cared for
