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ASK, NOT TELL
....and many other thoughts about facilitation, coaching ( teams & individuals) and learning
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David
Mar 30, 20172 min read
A facilitating French teacher
Further to my last 2 posts, this one is about the teacher. The French teacher is a great (learning) facilitator. She can easily get a...
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David
Nov 11, 20142 min read
Power of Facilitation
I talked about Professor Michael Sandel before here. I am drawn to his works again given what is going on in Hong Kong. It is again...
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David
Sep 8, 20091 min read
Presentation by Generation Y
I conducted a presentation class for 9 newly-joined management trainees in our firm. They are mostly fresh undergraduates i.e. they are...
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David
Mar 15, 20091 min read
My ideal slides我的理想幻灯片
I made a casual lunch presentation last week in the office to share my personal view on time management. Unlike the slides common in...
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David
Mar 1, 20091 min read
Business Cartoons
I find a good source of cartoons on www.glasbergen.com.  Oh, and there are chinese versions on www.hroot.com/businesscartoon/
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David
Feb 21, 20093 min read
6 levels of questions
Following my learning from the William Rothwell’s session, I now incorporate a course-end quiz into most of my new courses. There are...
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David
Jan 30, 20091 min read
Creative Visual Aid
I got a new iPod nano (Gen 4) and was fascinated by the high resolution when I played video on it. It is great to watch it on the iPod...
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David
Oct 14, 20081 min read
RAC - Different experience
Course: A presentation class Date: 20 Sep 08 Location: Beijing # of Learners: 8 I am feeling: Excited though tired I delivered a...
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David
Aug 20, 20081 min read
RAC - Customizing
Course: A presentation skills workshop Date: 18-19 Aug 08 Location: Shanghai, China # of Learners: 10 I am feeling: Good It is the first...
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David
Apr 23, 20082 min read
WIIFM - in 4 specific steps (Cont’d)
Step 2 Factor the strongly-related personal interests (SRPI) in the presentation topic Avoid the boring topic like ‘Briefing on the...
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David
Apr 20, 20082 min read
WIIFM …. in 4 specific steps
In my last presentation class, when we discussed the idea of WIIFM, a learner asked: ‘I am responsible for updating the Relationship...
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David
Mar 1, 20081 min read
PQF #5 – Gifts, no matter how trivial
Underlying Problem – You are running an in-company product briefing. You want some interaction to engage the audience. You plan to do...
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David
Feb 17, 20082 min read
What did you learn from your economics lesson?
Do you like the economists? Not many people do. At least it is claimed by one of the prominent economists himself – Robert Frank, the...
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David
Feb 11, 20082 min read
A 18-minutes Wall
Audience can get bored when you talk for some time. And this happens earlier than you think (or wish). It is around 18 minutes. ...
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David
Feb 10, 20082 min read
Adolf Hitler – Power of Silence
My another learning from "The Articulate Executive - Learn to Look, Act, and Sound Like a Leader" by Granville Toogood. - it is about...
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David
Feb 9, 20082 min read
Primal Mind vs Conscious Mind
With the 7 days of holiday in the Spring Festival, I can now have more time to work on my blog. One thing is about the books I...
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David
Feb 7, 20082 min read
CCTV Spring Festival Gala
Today is the first day of the Year of Rat. (Yes, it is your year if you were born on 1996, 1974, 1962…) It is also the start of the...
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David
Jan 27, 20082 min read
RAC – Satellite Delay (Cont’d)
I talked about Satellite Delay in my last post. And I did find out something useful through the activity on Day 2 of the presentation...
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David
Jan 19, 20082 min read
Learnings from Apple and PZ
I learned of the new Apple laptop yesterday - MacBook Air. Very cool! And shortly after the product announcement in MacWorld, I read a...
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David
Jan 13, 20082 min read
Why ‘Ask, Not Tell’?
A reader asked me recently why this blog is called ‘Ask, Not Tell’ (or ANT as I call it sometimes). I am embarrassed to realise that I...
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