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ASK, NOT TELL
....and many other thoughts about facilitation, coaching ( teams & individuals) and learning
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What did you learn from your economics lesson?
Do you like the economists? Not many people do. At least it is claimed by one of the prominent economists himself – Robert Frank, the...
David
Feb 17, 20082 min read
A 18-minutes Wall
Audience can get bored when you talk for some time. And this happens earlier than you think (or wish). It is around 18 minutes. ...
David
Feb 11, 20082 min read
Adolf Hitler – Power of Silence
My another learning from "The Articulate Executive - Learn to Look, Act, and Sound Like a Leader" by Granville Toogood. - it is about...
David
Feb 10, 20082 min read


CCTV Spring Festival Gala
Today is the first day of the Year of Rat. (Yes, it is your year if you were born on 1996, 1974, 1962…) It is also the start of the...
David
Feb 7, 20082 min read


RAC – “You got to start at 0900!!”
Shanghai continued to snow very heavily. In fact, the snow on the night of 2 Feb was said to be the heaviest in the last 50 years!! See...
David
Feb 7, 20083 min read
RAC - Satellite Delay
Course: A presentation course Date: 22-23 Jan 2008 Location: Seriously cold in Shanghai, China # of Participants: 8 I am feeling: Good I...
David
Jan 26, 20081 min read


Singapore TTT - Complete the sentence
One great thing about Singapore is the food, especially the local one. I went out with a few other facilitators for fish ball noodle a...
David
Jan 25, 20081 min read


Singapore TTT – ‘The Knowledge is in the room!’
I attended a 6-day TTT course for a management course in Singapore last week. I learnt a lot from it. I wish I could have shared my...
David
Jan 19, 20082 min read


Why ‘Ask, Not Tell’?
A reader asked me recently why this blog is called ‘Ask, Not Tell’ (or ANT as I call it sometimes). I am embarrassed to realise that I...
David
Jan 13, 20082 min read
‘Deadly Practical’ and ‘Less is More’ for Line Trainers
I recently designed a one-day course with purpose to equip the line trainers with basic facilitation skills. I basically wrote the...
David
Jan 9, 20082 min read
Trainer-Participant Relationship – Intended Conflict
A new thought from a 3-day management course which I am conducting this week. There was a team-problem solving activity which requires...
David
Nov 22, 20072 min read


‘7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ – Build Personal Rapport with Participants
7 Habits of Highly Effective People‘. They all speak quite highly about it. You may have heard of a book of the same name by Stephen...
David
Nov 16, 20072 min read
Trainer-Participant Relationship 2
Another reflection about the relationship with the participants – if you find the participants ‘mis-behave’ e.g. walking in and out all...
David
Nov 14, 20071 min read
Trainer-Participant Relationship
If you have read my previous posts about participants’ mis-behavior, you know that this issue is dear to me (and I think to all trainers...
David
Nov 13, 20072 min read
Toastmasters
My organisation puts together a Toastmasters demo session today and I went to find out what it is actually about. I have heard about it...
David
Sep 18, 20072 min read
Creative Training Techniques Handbook by Bob Pike
It took me quite some time to finish this book, and more importantly, to comprehend the content since it is a bit wordy and some ideas...
David
Sep 11, 20071 min read
ASTD – Sivasailam Thiagarajan
Thiagi is another great person I met during the ASTD conference. And more importantly, his website thiagi.com. There are a lot of...
David
Sep 10, 20071 min read
What is your facilitation style?
Last week, I was in Singapore attending a 5-day management training. There was a facilitator from Indonesia with his own unique style...
David
Jul 26, 20072 min read
ASTD - 'Who talk most, learn most'
'The person doing the most talking is doing the most learning’ – a great quote I learnt from Sharon Bowman during the ASTD conference....
David
Jun 13, 20071 min read
What is the focus – powerpoint, me (presenter) or them (participants)?
I always remind my presentation class participants that you should avoid letting the screen / powerpoint to be the focus of your...
David
May 28, 20071 min read
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