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ASK, NOT TELL
....and many other thoughts about facilitation, coaching ( teams & individuals) and learning
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Question Bank 2
How would Superman / Obama / [any idol figure the respondent has] handle this? This question is used more in the coaching setting. It...
David
Jan 27, 20121 min read


Question Bank 1
‘What advice would you give to the others if they were in the same situation?’ I learn to use this question recently from a colleague. ...
David
Jan 26, 20121 min read


Question Bank
I should have written this series of posts long ago. This blog is primarily about asking questions and the coming posts will contain some...
David
Jan 26, 20121 min read


5 Years Old!
‘Ask, Not Tell’ is 5 years old this month! I cannot believe how fast time has flied! As I look back, the topics in the blog have...
David
Jan 15, 20121 min read


What does a facilitator do? Space and Time
I facilitated 2 senior management meetings recently. Both were attended by intact teams comprising fewer than 10 people i.e. a small...
David
Jan 8, 20122 min read


Questions from the TTT learners
I ran a TTT class in Shenzhen recently. There were a few questions from the learners which I promised to respond after the class. ...
David
Dec 21, 20112 min read


Co-design... trap
An additional idea on top of one of my recent posts – Co-designing with client. I talked about a lot the benefits in designing the...
David
Dec 11, 20112 min read


Interesting questions
From a book I am reading.. ‘What does a class certificate certify? Attendance or learning?’
David
Dec 3, 20111 min read


ARL
I cannot help writing about ARL again. See my previous post Forget about ‘Training’. The more I think about it, the more I find it...
David
Nov 16, 20112 min read


Co-designing with client
Here is another learning from the ARL (Action Reflection Learning) workshop – always co-design with the client for learning or meeting...
David
Nov 14, 20111 min read


Believe in the process
I attended a workshop conducted by an international coaching / facilitation expert last week. In the workshop, I experienced how he...
David
Nov 5, 20112 min read


The Secrets of Facilitation
I have not written any post on books for a long time, though I have not stopped reading. The book I want to recommend this time is...
David
Oct 29, 20111 min read


Be prepared, and prepared not to use what you prepare
Recently, things have been happening much faster than I can reflect and capture. It is good since my capability and confidence will...
David
Oct 27, 20111 min read


Being flexible in content
I was working to take up a senior leadership class in Hong Kong last week. My biggest learning is on how rigid the workshop content...
David
Sep 15, 20113 min read


Difficult Learners
I had some new learning on how to manage learners in class. In one of my recent classes in Hong Kong, there was 1 learner who appeared to...
David
Jul 24, 20111 min read


Get them to speak up
There was a recent occasion during which I was asked on how to get participants in meetings to speak up. I have shared in this blog...
David
Jul 16, 20112 min read


Conducting TTT
I recently attended a one-day “Train-The-Trainer” (TTT) on a specific training course. Though it is not an entirely structured one like...
David
Jul 2, 20111 min read


Forget about ‘Training’
I was reading a book called 'Action Reflection Learning' (ARL). It contains a lot of stories on how to make learning happened without...
David
Jun 19, 20112 min read


What is the right thing to do?
I came across a series of very insightful lectures on the Internet. It is called ‘Justice’ by a Harvard Professor called Michael...
David
May 19, 20112 min read


Resisting the temptation to tell
As the name of this blog suggests, I find asking rather than telling to be amazingly more effective in various aspects in life –...
David
May 1, 20112 min read
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