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ASK, NOT TELL
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Individuation, Abstract Art and Corporate Learning (Part 1)
This post is related to my recent exposure to Jungian psychology and in fact the last post on abstract painting. I set out the Swiss...
David
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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What’s the point?
I still remember when I saw the first time an Abstractionism painting many many years ago, I wondered 'what is the point?' I have never...
David
Apr 9, 20162 min read
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What story would you like to tell?
Many years ago, I was facing some difficult career choices. As a coachee, I was asked a question which I found very powerful. My...
David
Dec 31, 20151 min read
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What is really Reflection? (Cont’d)
I have further thought on this. Reflection is actually a few layers of ‘What does the experience mean to me?’ We asked ourselves...
David
Dec 25, 20152 min read
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What is really Reflection?
I am intrigued as I heard a colleague explaining what reflection really means. I have not really thought about it, and I like her...
David
Dec 18, 20151 min read
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A question on questionÂ
New learning experience last month. First, I worked a coach (for teams and individuals) in a CEIBS executive education program in...
David
Sep 15, 20152 min read
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Immunity to Change
It is beautiful! ... if you ask me how I feel about overall Immunity to Change (ITC) approach. I have recently attended a workshop on...
David
Sep 25, 20132 min read
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Why ‘Group’ for ‘Individual’?
In recent years, I am more attracted to work with intact teams rather than ‘open programs’. (By ‘open programs’, I mean that the...
David
Sep 6, 20131 min read
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Inner Work
This piece of reflection is a combination of recent experience in Hong Kong and Chennai, as well as my reading on the book 'Standing on...
David
Aug 31, 20131 min read
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Focus what to do INSTEAD of what NOT to (Cont’d)
The exact words he uses His emotion His intention in saying what he is saying His underlying belief, value and attitude What he is saying...
David
May 5, 20131 min read
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Focus what to do INSTEAD of what NOT to
There is something I want to get better in my 1 on 1 coaching practice. I observe that from time to time I cannot help offer suggestion...
David
Apr 30, 20131 min read
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Coach only if he wants to
One of my friends came to me to talk about her career choices the other day. Somehow I launched into my coaching mode and started to...
David
Mar 30, 20131 min read
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A New Look
Ask Not Tell has been around for 6 years. I have long been thinking to give the website a new look. Why? I believe that we all...
David
Mar 16, 20132 min read
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