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ASK, NOT TELL
....and many other thoughts about facilitation, coaching ( teams & individuals) and learning
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Sit on your hands and shut up
I heard a veteran facilitator talking about Open Space earlier this month. Great wisdom. She said that there are 3 necessary conditions...
David
Oct 17, 20141 min read
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‘Learning’ from Ancient Chinese
Triggered by a discussion with a friend, I would like to write a few posts about Chinese ancient wisdom, and more importantly what it...
David
Jun 19, 20143 min read
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Co-facilitation
As I am about to leave my current organisation, someone asks me ‘what have you gained the most from the job?’ I think it is my...
David
May 3, 20142 min read
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‘Check-In’ in Phone Meetings
A useful post on the HBR Blog - Create Human Connection in a Virtual Teams. A reflection as I read through it.... on the idea of...
David
Feb 13, 20141 min read
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Action Learning in Action
I was excited about what I experienced in an internal meeting conducted in India. Basically there were a few leadership development...
David
Jan 30, 20141 min read
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Rethinking Facilitation
It was a recent talent development workshop co-facilitated by me. In short, in a few occasions I thought that we were about to hit the...
David
Dec 14, 20131 min read
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‘When a program has a life of its own..’
Just completed a workshop in the Trident Hotel in Mumbai… I only realised that this was one of the hotels where the 2008 terrorist...
David
Oct 30, 20132 min read
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Diversity in participants
[The view from my hotel room was surprisingly stunning!!] I attended the IAF Asia conference last month in Tokyo. Different from last...
David
Oct 11, 20132 min read
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Immunity to Change
It is beautiful! ... if you ask me how I feel about overall Immunity to Change (ITC) approach. I have recently attended a workshop on...
David
Sep 25, 20132 min read
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Why ‘Group’ for ‘Individual’?
In recent years, I am more attracted to work with intact teams rather than ‘open programs’. (By ‘open programs’, I mean that the...
David
Sep 6, 20131 min read
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Inner Work
This piece of reflection is a combination of recent experience in Hong Kong and Chennai, as well as my reading on the book 'Standing on...
David
Aug 31, 20131 min read
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What (Meeting) Facilitators Do
Watch it. Just 4 mins. I particularly like the analogies!
David
Jun 23, 20131 min read
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Physical Conditioning
I love looking at the Alps over the Lake Geneva. I will focus my eyesight and read the outline of the mountain slowly. I feel very...
David
Jun 5, 20131 min read
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London Experience
I had a great workshop in London. A really good one! First, the learners are great. They are mature yet with high intellectual...
David
May 28, 20131 min read
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I am International
Not exactly humble but just cannot help reflect on this here. I was in Botswana doing a Leadership Development program. It is the...
David
Feb 10, 20131 min read
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The Paradox of Confidence and Vulnerability
This is another interesting insight from my 2012 experience. Vulnerability First, let me talk about vulnerability. This could mean...
David
Feb 9, 20132 min read
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Staying Real
I am happy how the Singapore Dec workshop turned out. I had been worried about it quite a lot. It was a pilot program for a group of...
David
Jan 26, 20131 min read
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Walk and Talk
I tried out something new in a recent workshop. As we started the day 2, I asked the learners to pair up, gave them a few questions...
David
Jan 5, 20131 min read
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