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ASK, NOT TELL
....and many other thoughts about facilitation, coaching ( teams & individuals) and learning
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Immunity to Change
It is beautiful! ... if you ask me how I feel about overall Immunity to Change (ITC) approach. I have recently attended a workshop on...
David
Sep 25, 20132 min read


Draw out questions
I learnt recently from my co-facilitator a wonderful question in a workshop in Shanghai. A great way to draw thoughts / questions from...
David
Sep 17, 20131 min read


Why ‘Group’ for ‘Individual’?
In recent years, I am more attracted to work with intact teams rather than ‘open programs’. (By ‘open programs’, I mean that the...
David
Sep 6, 20131 min read


Inner Work
This piece of reflection is a combination of recent experience in Hong Kong and Chennai, as well as my reading on the book 'Standing on...
David
Aug 31, 20131 min read


Physical Conditioning
I love looking at the Alps over the Lake Geneva. I will focus my eyesight and read the outline of the mountain slowly. I feel very...
David
Jun 5, 20131 min read


ARL on ARL
I was trying to explain what ARL is to another. Someone suggested a much better idea on how to do it. Let them experience first and...
David
Apr 7, 20131 min read


A New Look
Ask Not Tell has been around for 6 years. I have long been thinking to give the website a new look. Why? I believe that we all...
David
Mar 16, 20132 min read


Engagement, Performance or Compliance
I recently heard a great way to look at different ‘training programs’. They are either for the purpose of engagement, performance or...
David
Feb 23, 20131 min read


The Paradox of Confidence and Vulnerability
This is another interesting insight from my 2012 experience. Vulnerability First, let me talk about vulnerability. This could mean...
David
Feb 9, 20132 min read


Staying Real
I am happy how the Singapore Dec workshop turned out. I had been worried about it quite a lot. It was a pilot program for a group of...
David
Jan 26, 20131 min read


Walk and Talk
I tried out something new in a recent workshop. As we started the day 2, I asked the learners to pair up, gave them a few questions...
David
Jan 5, 20131 min read


Reflection Dilemma
I believe in the ARL practice. Specifically, I believe that people can learn a lot by reflecting on experience. However, I often find...
David
Dec 28, 20121 min read


Miracle happens before and after
I was reflecting with a few facilitators on how to handle a difficult situation in a workshop. One facilitator shared a quote –...
David
Dec 22, 20121 min read


Another wise man in 2012
I am lucky. I met another very unique practitioner in 2012. And I have opportunity to work with him as well. We co-facilitated 3...
David
Dec 18, 20121 min read


IAF 2012 Shenzhen
It is embarrassing to write about my experience back in August. Anyway, got to do some catch-up work. I attended the IAF Asia...
David
Dec 17, 20121 min read


Peer Introduction
“…The earlier you find comfortable with each other, the better to your learning…” I learnt great things from my co-facilitator in...
David
Aug 9, 20121 min read


Half-way Feedback
It is not a new idea. It is more whether one really does it or not. The KNOWING-DOING gap. On day 3 morning of a 4-day workshop in...
David
Aug 7, 20121 min read


Do it before asking learners to do it
The HK workshop was a great success! More importantly I learnt new things. My co-facilitator always asked ourselves to do first...
David
Jun 29, 20121 min read


Give all to speak at least once on Day 1
The travel is a bit crazy these days. In May and Jun, I have workshops in Dubai, Mumbai, Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur, Shanghai and...
David
Jun 24, 20121 min read
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